Hello, this is Rorie. My real person name is Erin Rea Ochocki – but people have called me Rorie as a nickname and a joke for years (it started with Gilmore Girls, referencing Rory, but then took on a life of it’s own, which is a long and slightly hilarious story for another day). But soon enough it became my stage name – because no one wants to try and say “Ochocki,” and there’s about a 75% chance that you are pronouncing it wrong in your head anyway. But that doesn’t matter, because you can remember how to pronounce “Rorie” and you’re good to go. I’m in my mid-twenties and I currently live by the river on the line of Alexandria, VA and Washington D.C.
Anyways, my blog is a good place to go for anyone who has ever wondered more of the story behind “roriemusic.” I’m trying to share my heart a bit more on here, for those who are interested in the real life side of my story. I’d recommend scrolling back to some of the archived posts (there aren’t too many yet, so it won’t take you a million years) for more heart-sharing. If there’s something else you want to read about (that doesn’t involve the revealing of my deepest, darkest secrets), please suggest away! Who knows, maybe you’ll relate to or resonate with something in here too.
It wasn’t until four years ago that I felt that first feeling of coming “full circle.” I had a blog under a different name, and wrote some pretty honest posts that are now nowhere to be found (I tried to search for them, and actually can’t find them)…but I do remember referencing a story from a Beth Moore bible study series. She talked about how, when she was a kid, she used to line her stuffed animals up in a row and pretend she was a teacher. Over time, she became increasingly shy and nervous to share her gift and dream with others. But one day, she found herself writing a book and speaking at conferences, and that was when she felt this feeling of coming full-circle…she wasn’t scared anymore. But it didn’t just happen. It was a whole journey to get there.
A LOT has happened since I wrote that first post about that feeling: I moved to New York, worked at a really interesting non-profit called Nomi Network, where I learned more about the world and the presence and importance of hope, learned to perform on stage again without feeling SUPER nervous (you may or may not know this about me – it depends on whether you know me in person or online: I’m naturally fairly introverted, but I love people a lot and have learned over the years to share more of myself as an artist and person without being too shy), met the man of my dreams (very unexpectedly! this is definitely a story for yet another day), moved to DC, married that guy!, started this thing called “Rorie,” 🙂 started working a second job (again, and again), missed a lot of my friends, met new friends, released an EP, made mistakes, laughed a lot, cried a lot, etc.. You can assume there is a lot being left out of this description, and none of this has exactly concluded…it keeps going on in one way or another, and I guess, if we’re looking at it this way: a circle never ends.
I’ve had this feeling lately that there isn’t going to be just one moment in life that shimmers with a sense of arrival. Sometimes we are led out of a season, but we are always led into something else. Because life is not so much about what you do: your career, your accomplishments, etc. but more about who you are.
For me, music is something I do (and love, a whole lot): but not who I am. I am a follower of Christ, a wife, a daughter, a sister, and a friend. Everything I do should be an out-pouring of that first title on the list. Loving because I have been loved. Listening because there is something to be learned. Writing because there is something to be said. Singing because, how can I not?
Knowing who you are first will bring life into everything you do in this life. And realizing that this summer feels like coming full circle all over again.